“ Unconditional love is known as affection without any limitations, or love without conditions. It is because of this power differential inherent in the parent-child relationship that it is essential to be aware of sending the message that our child ‘owes us’ us for the duties that in fact, we accepted and agreed to when we made the decision to bring another human being into the world. Thankfully, we now live in a world with a growing awareness of the respectful care and conditions needed to raise healthy thriving humans.
These strings likely stem from the natural power imbalance that exists in the parent-child relationship in combination with the antiquated and harmful views of past generations that sought to dehumanize children.
Parenting is arguably the hardest job on the planet, and if we’re honest, most adults in general often have lots of subconscious ‘invisible strings’ attached when it comes to showing love and affection to children. Read > 50 Fun and Calming Bedtime Activities for Kids “Why do you insist on doing everything you can to make homework more stressful?” “Your brother manages to make it out to the car on time every morning, why is it so difficult for you?” “We do so much for you every day and this is how you repay us?” This means that your love for your child is contingent on their actions, or things happening with them (or not happening).Ĭonditional love might make a sneaky appearance in comments like these: Conditional Love MeaningĬonditional love is simply, love with conditions. Life ‘turns on’ and very quickly my affection towards my children starts sounding less like radiating unconditional love with no strings attached, and more like very impatient conditional love with “ do the things now child if you’d like to live another day” type of strings attached. Then the sun starts rising and alarm clocks start sounding (I’m convinced hell must be chock-full of alarm clocks), and all of the minutiae that had melted away the prior evening is now relentlessly assaulting me from every angle. Tomorrow I’m going to make sure you know just how far and just how unconditionally my love for you stretches, love. I’d throw myself in front of a bus for you at any moment necessary, love. It’s hard to describe how this moment feels as a parent isn’t it?įor me, it’s sort of as if everything else in the world has melted away and the only thing strong enough to remain is the radiating reverberating unconditional love I feel for my child. “I don’t think he’ll wake up from the flash…” I think to myself as I stand over my sleeping 6-year-old and sneakily position my phone to snap an angelic picture of his perfect little nose and feathered eyelashes. ⭐️ Free 9-page Expert Master guide⭐️> 5 Secrets to MORE cooperation and LESS conflict with your strong-willed child (Click here to grab)
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